Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Entrepreneurial Attributes - 3 must haves, and 10 behaviors to avoid

Being an entrepreneur is one thing, and being a successful one is another. Ms. Anchal Gupta, a resident of Boston, MA sees entrepreneurs as people with “a vision, and zeal to achieve it…”. Besides the traditional track of having a defined goal, process, plan and evaluation criteria, there are certain personal traits of a human being that make them a born entrepreneur or not. You may have the best business plan and the best sales process in place, but what differentiates one businessperson from another is his/her charisma, the ability to captivate, inspire, and influence people.

Optimism: One of the most attractive qualities of any person is Optimism, the ability to see the positive in any situation and to be able to move forward. People, as well as business tend to gravitate towards someone who has a positive attitude towards life in general. Not only externally but internally as well, the most powerful mover is positivity in our attitudes. Clients, and employees are equally influenced by the attitude of the business owner. Most successful entrepreneurs attribute their success to this aspect in their personalities. Also, entrepreneurs more than anyone else, take risks. They employ time and resources towards something they believe in. It works, and at times it does not work. Even with the most calculated, thought out risks, and back up plans, situations arise when their own optimistic attitude is what they can rely upon to take them beyond and pull them forward. Along with the attitude, a disciplined approach includes discussing options, evaluating them and most importantly implementing them with the right team of people. People who you can lean on, people who trust your judgment and believe in you. As summarized by Mr. Karan Bir Singh Sidhu, Joint Secretary at Government of India, “The key elements of entrepreneurial personality are: Optimism, Discipline and Ability to get along with others”.

Uniqueness: Another core quality that dictates entrepreneurial abilities is “to be able to look at everything differently,” Ms. Roopam Arora, a business owner in Boston, adds, “They (entrepreneurs) always try to find a problem to solve, a puzzle to finish”. We all know there are millions and millions of businesses that sell similar products and services. What clicks with the human mind is not a product or a service, but a solution. As a customer, anytime we choose to buy something, we are essentially trying to solve a problem. An entrepreneur who is able to see it the same way as us and present a solution to us is the one that gets our attention as a consumer. As the business owner, this involves knowing your competition, developing and knowing your own uniqueness as a business as well as be able to communicate that to potential clients. As Mr. Ram Dhan Yadav Kotamraja, the CEO and President at Novedea Systems Inc puts it, “The uniqueness lies in being able to challenge the status quo all the time” as it relates to processes, presentation, and delivery.

Utilize the Power of People : According to Mr. Sanjay Mazumder, the CEO at Veristorm, From my experience as a serial entrepreneur in high tech industry, the success is in the team you build. The right kind of partners, employees, investors will like to associate to the high integrity person. You absolutely need to possess this to have "real" success as an entrepreneur.And rightly said, though most entrepreneurs come with a “just do it” attitude and the enthusiasm of “do it yourself”, one of the most neglected skill of successful people is “people skill”. It is not important to have a perfect person as a team member but it sure is important to have perfect skills to make a perfect team. Not one person can do everything. It is almost disastrous to believe that one CEO can manage the Operations as well as  Sales aspect of business. Though this may be an established fact in large enterprises, it is easily overlooked in smaller ones. A person can either be internally focused or externally to say the least. A complete team, of course, includes visionaries, ‘executionists’ and well as those who possess the skill to sell, expanded to investors, and partners as well. But as a basic skill, an entrepreneur knows how to select complementary team members as far as skills are concerned and also knows how to utilize these skills to the maximum potential without burning out people resources. Ms. Hannah David Paramanadam, agrees 100% as she spells out her three essential ingredients of a smart entrepreneurial mind “Good negotiation skills, people skills and the willingness to take risks.”

In addition, as Mr. Mazumder touched upon, the integrity of an entrepreneur is the fortress of all attributes which dictates long term relationships and in turn, long term success. Though there are many other characteristics that can be listed out for smart entrepreneurs, these came out as the top three. Interestingly, one of our respected community members chose a non traditional and less ‘sugar-coated’ path to emphasize and warn new entrepreneurs against attractive impulsive practices that seem to attain immediate perceived success but in the long run fizzle out quickly as clients, investors and employees are able to see through these pretty easily. Here’s a list from Mr. Jay Srinivasan, who recommends staying away from these short term quick-winning-charm attributes, which are commonly seen being associated with success in this competitive world:
·        Back stabbing
·        Being Selfish
·        Me Me Me attitude all the time
·        Excessive praise, ( lots of it - More the better)
·        Make money at any cost, Charge for every thing !
·        Use others when needed
·        Be an opportunist , Need not be always a WIN WIN situation. 
·        Claim success, even if the venture was total failure and most of the shareholders lost money . But who cares ! 
·        Kick the ladder which helped, once the person reaches the top, forget the old friends and move in a new circle, now that the entrepreneur has made his money !
·        Learn to hype even the minutest stuff 


The Foundations TV would like to thank all those who contributed to this article and made it an interesting read for our viewers.

Friday, July 18, 2014

A dozen reasons to "Unfriend" on Facebook

Social Media sites like Facebook take off so well for an individual and the first couple of years of being on it is super exciting for everyone as they connect with old buddies, high school friends, college mates, even old and current neighbors and find out what’s going on in each other’s lives. The friend circle expands to “Friends of  Friends” with a click of a few buttons and impulsive ‘friend acceptances’. On-line friendships develop. The vision expands and elaborates. Eventually, it starts to take over. Deep connections are formed and emotions flow through the digital world as well. Emotions, with all their depth and variety start spilling out as words and pictures. Re-using them out of context becomes easier. The bigger your ‘friend list’ the more repetitive your newsfeed becomes. If you’ve been on Facebook for a couple or more years with an expanded friend list, you’ve seen it all. The charm starts to fade away. The quotes and jokes are copied, repeated without credits, pictures flaunted, businesses advertised, news shared from popular channels, and an over doze of similar comments is seen flowing across. While the number of “Likes” being the most gratifying experience of the day, becomes increasingly competitive; sensitivity towards human behaviors also becomes more prevalent. And then comes a stage of ‘digital awareness and realization’ , a time to know that it’s ok to cut down on the noise in the friend list. Though ‘Unsubscribing’ to a friend neatly removes  friends’ posts from your newsfeed, ‘Unfriending’ is a more popular click to remove the ‘annoyance’ from your newsfeed. Some choose to do a regular ‘Spring Clean Up’ while others are forced to do it when they reach their 5000 friend list mark. Here’s a few characteristic behaviors that are linked to an ‘annoyance factor’ and trigger being  ‘Unfriended’ on Facebook.

1.   Display self- obsession with regards to moods, pictures, selfies: Unless there is common interest, personal relationship or another worldly motivation to keep these people in your list, those who post too much on facebook are the first to go.
2.   Send game invites: Though there is a setting in our account to disable game invites, not many users are aware of it and end up receiving irritating game requests. Those who play the games probably are not even aware of the invites being sent through their account and sometimes get unjustly unfriended on this regard alone
3.   Tag unnecessarily: To attain visibility, some users tag ‘popular’ bloggers on  their general posts. This misleads people to the posts as those from the ‘popular’ user as well as clogs timelines of those tagged. Untagging manually is an additional task and hence ‘unfriending’ or turning tag reviewing on becomes an easier way out.
4.   Ill-mannered or indecent comments : Thankfully deleting comments, messages and even accounts from your  friend list is a mechanism easily applied to types who use indecent or rude FB etiquettes. Blocking abusive, and blunt behavior out of your lives is as easy as blocking an account.
5.   Impertinent messages or jokes in inbox: Though it may seem private, an inbox can be very intrusive as well. What comes through an inbox reveals more than any comment or post does about a person and hence it immediately raises a red flag. Consistent nosiness, and ungracious or vulgar jokes or messages certainly lead to unfriending
6.   Stalking to flirt with you or your friends: Light flirting seems to be a common behavior on FB. The cross over from appreciating to exaltation is visibly obvious. As a human being, no one minds the magnified appreciation coming their own way, but its expansion towards ones friends or family members is intolerable. When your facebook friends start digitally toying with your real friends and family, the unfriend button is the first to be clicked.
7.   Pessimistic or orthodox attitude in life: Most people hop onto facebook at the end of the day wanting to take their mind off the regular days work and for de-stressing. Entertainment is what they are looking for. Those who constantly post negative or strongly opinioned posts filled with critic and their despairing judgments about various topics will get unfriended by these recreation seeking individuals
8.   Disliking or unfriending in real life : Altered relationships in real life will immediately get reflected on social media as well. Any friction in your relationship leads to unfriending, sometimes even expanding to close friends of people who you are unfriending as well.
9.   Business promotion: Some only use facebook for promoting their business and those users are more likely  to get unfriended by those who don’t anticipate using their services anytime in life.
10. Inactive or minimal participation on your wall: This reason may be less related to the ‘annoyance factor’ and more to keeping a manageable friend list. But some will unfriend you because you do not like their post or comment on them. For some, this is also an act of failing expectations and causing disappointment specially if these users are seen commenting on other peoples posts.
11. No response: When people send you a message, they expect a reply. A no-response from you would be considered an impolite behavior and will call for unfriending specially when you are actively participating on your own wall and other walls as well.
12. Stay private: Though there is setting to ‘restrict’ in general and also restrict the audience per post, ‘unfriending’ is used by some to not share their own personal pictures and stories with those who are in the outer circle of friends or those who copy, or misuse their personal information.


Reading at this list again, it may seem like no matter what you do, you are bound to get ‘unfriended’ by someone sometime in your facebook life. Though there are a few somewhat likable post trends like jokes and preachy quotes, but those users too are not regarded as gurus and too much of such posts can be just as annoying. In fact there is no fool proof way of preventing the ‘unfriending’. But, interestingly we also found that this was a mutual criteria. Most of the time it is both parties who dislike each other and one is just glad that the other pulled the plug on this. As in real life, we move on. In facebook as well, this list should not stop us from being who we are. It is a great medium to express yourself and sometimes even define yourself. Some will love you and some will not. That should not stop you from being your unique self. Enjoy the journey, know that things like “restricted”, “blocking”, “unsubscribing” and “unfriending” will continue to happen, and know that there is no benefit in taking offense to it or holding a grudge against someone who unfriended you. Facebook is a tool and just like you cannot blame a spoon for making you fat, you cannot blame a digital tool for exposing you to the bragging capabilities of others. And just like you cannot blame the spice in the food for not being able to resist it, you cannot blame the capacity of others to annoy you. Choose well and enjoy the ride.

Contributing thoughts for this article were provided by: Hitant Vohra, Jagdeep Singh, Vandana Midha, Rajiv Lochan, Suneet Kheterpal, Anandini Chandreshekhar, Sukhpreet Brar, Filza C Filza, Simrat Parmar, Mukesh Kumar Sagar, Leigh Nicole, Reena Kharkwal, Nishi Jaswal, Ragoo Raghunathan, Amardeep Singh Sehgal, Karan Bir Singh Sidhu, Anant Barbadikar, Rohini Iris Pola, Sona Sara, Braj Cals, Reeta Tuli, Amritha Mangalat, Shaadi bazaar, Sharda Jha Prabha Srinivasan, Tarseme Singh, Anjana Mangalat, Madhupurna Sen, Vika Soni, Nalini Krishnan, Nitima Pangasa, Milind Deshpande, Sidhartha Roy, Parminder Irvine, Kapal Minhas, Kanti Sharma and Sanjay Sood